蘇菲亞的小廚房

今天偶然看到朋友分享的文章，心有戚戚焉。突然有成仙超脫的fu，所以就吐出了下面這一段。 Anyway，看看唄!

 以下是原連接:

https://www.facebook.com/notes/kaichi-lo/from-india-i-believe-itshare-with-youmy-dearwhomsoever-you-encounter-is-the-righ/10150721036514082

Whomsoever you encounter is the right one.
This means that no one comes into our life by chance. Everyone who is around us, anyone with whom we interact, represents something, whether to teach us something or to help us improve a current situation.

Whatever happened is the only thing that could have happened.
Nothing, absolutely nothing of that which we experienced could have been any other way. Not even in the least important detail. There is no “If only I had done that differently…, then it would have been different…”. No. What happened is the only thing that could have taken place and must have taken place for us to learn our lesson in order to move forward. Every single situation in life which we encounter is absolutely perfect, even when it defies our understanding and our ego.

Each moment in which something begins is the right moment
Everything begins at exactly the right moment, neither earlier nor later. When we are ready for it, for that something new in our life, it is there, ready to begin.

What is over, is over.
It is that simple. When something in our life ends, it helps our evolution. That is why, enriched by the recent experience, it is better to let go and move on.

*I think it is no coincidence that you’re here reading this. If these words strike a chord, it’s because you meet the requirements and understand that not one single snowflake falls accidentally in the wrong place!*

人生是由一堆"小事件"串聯，並進而觸發產生了下一個事件。

每一次的結束也都是一個新的開始，簡單來說就像是在玩一個遊戲；過了一個關卡會引領你到下一個關卡，但事件本身並沒有絕對的對錯。關卡跟關卡之間或許有，也或許沒有關聯；有好的，也有不好的感受。關關難過，關關過：不會不過，只是當下你會感受到的部分不同而已；且完全取決在於你用怎麼樣的角度去切入事件。

在過程中，可能會有很多的人事物參予其中；他們或許會，也或許不會一直出現在你的每一次"事件"中。沒有什麼事情是永恆的，曾經這麼好的朋友，也可能到後來只是一個曾經出現在你生命之中所謂的認識的人而已。

感情會不會因為時間的長短而累積?

其實我們累積的一直都是一種由習慣而來的安全感，而並非感情本身；這樣說雖然感覺有些薄情，但這所謂的"結果"本身極易因時間空間跟心境上的轉變而產生變化，不只跟人有所謂的緣分，其實跟事、或物之間也有；當時間到了你想拒絕也無法，該發生的他就是會發生。任何事情都有其時效性跟唯一性，它只在特定時間點上被觸發，也只會發生那一次。不管之後的事件多麼的相似，它都不會是一樣的。

人生就只是在過日子而已，就像吃飯配菜也只是想要多點滋味而已，不必去羨慕他人的那盤菜，因為箇中滋味也只有吃那盤菜的人自己知道而已。